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    Expressing 'to hate' with 恨 (hèn)

    Actions & Events
    Degree & Intensity

    Structure

    Subject + 恨 + Object

    Explanation

    The verb 恨 (hèn) means 'to hate' or 'to resent' and expresses strong negative emotion toward someone or something. It is often paired with 爱 (love) in the structure 又爱又恨 to express a love-hate feeling. For example, 又爱又恨的关系 means 'a love-hate relationship.'

    Examples

    • 她恨自己当初没有好好珍惜那段时间。

      Tā hèn zìjǐ dāngchū méiyǒu hǎohǎo zhēnxī nà duàn shíjiān.

      She hates herself for not having cherished that period of time.

    • 我对这种不公平的做法恨之入骨。

      Wǒ duì zhè zhǒng bù gōngpíng de zuòfǎ hènzhīrùgǔ.

      I hate this kind of unfair practice to the bone.

    • 他们之间是一种又爱又恨的关系。

      Tāmen zhījiān shì yì zhǒng yòu ài yòu hèn de guānxì.

      Theirs is a love-hate relationship.

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