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    Expressing 'reluctance to part' with 不舍 (bùshě)

    Wishes & Desires

    Structure

    尽管/虽然 + 不舍 + Clause

    Explanation

    The verb 不舍 (bùshě) means 'reluctant to part with' or 'unwilling to let go.' It combines the negative 不 with 舍 (to give up, to part with), expressing an emotional attachment that makes separation difficult. It is commonly used to describe feelings when leaving a person, place, or beloved possession.

    Examples

    • 离开那座城市的时候,我心里满是不舍。

      Líkāi nà zuò chéngshì de shíhòu, wǒ xīn lǐ mǎn shì bùshě.

      When I left that city, my heart was full of reluctance to part.

    • 毕业时大家都很不舍,抱在一起哭了很久。

      Bìyè shí dàjiā dōu hěn bùshě, bào zài yīqǐ kū le hěn jiǔ.

      At graduation, everyone felt so reluctant to part that they hugged each other and cried for a long time.

    • 她对老房子充满了不舍,不愿意搬走。

      Tā duì lǎo fángzi chōngmǎn le bùshě, bù yuànyì bān zǒu.

      She was full of attachment to the old house and was unwilling to move away.

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